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Creating the Different Character 8/1/06

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Tue Aug 01 12:06:44 2006

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mary rosenblum

Hello all.

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Welcome to our Tuesday Forum.

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I don't have to go rescue my son this week, so I guess we actually get to talk aobut this topic.

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I carried it over from last week.

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This is the Tuesday Forum with me Mary Rosenblum LR Web Editor, fiction and nonfiction writer. We're talking about creating the 'different' character. If you're new here, remember that you need to click on the Ask a Question button or the word bubble next to the red question mark at the top of the screen, or use the ask a question icon in order to ask a question. Your regular send bar won't reach me! You can also type /ask in front of your question in your regular send bar to reach me.

geezer

I'm depressed. The publishing houses I've looked at require agents. The agents I've looked at want published authors.

mary rosenblum

Don't be depressed, geezer.

mary rosenblum

While agents DO prefer published authors....they are easier to sell of course...

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you have more agents out there than clients.

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You can find agents one of two ways.

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You look for new agents, preferably juniors from an established agency who are setting off on their own.

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OR you go to conferences and chat up writers and editors....

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and ask for recommendations. Coming to an agent with the recommendation from one of their clients will get you a look at least.

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But it is doable.

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A young friend of mine ended up with two agents willing to look at her book and she had no publication history at all.

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And she only used the list of agents in the various market index books.

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She got tons of rejections as you can imagine, but she did end up with an agent.

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It's hard and often discouraging work, the writing is hard and often discouraging work.

mary rosenblum

Why do you think so few people actually pursue it seriously?

mary rosenblum

We all work WAY too hard for the money we make and we all need to have our heads examined! :-)

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Oh, by the way, I was interviewed yesterday be a columnist for Pages Magazine.

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This is a relatively recent magazine that focuses on in depth reviews with authors of forthcoming books and it's now stocked in all the major bookstore chains...

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and is being pushed as their 'what's new' advertising for customers.

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It's certainly something to check out.

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If you're looking for new books to read, too, it sounds worth it. I know that if I like what an author has to say,

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I'll buy his or her book, and I've never been disappointed.

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So I'll be picking up copies to see who they've talked with and what that author has to say.

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As far as our Forum today, I wanted to return yet again to an aspect of characterization, because good characterization...

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is probably the most difficult aspect of craft to master and has the greatest effect on your success as a writer...

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whether you write fiction, personal essay, even nonfiction.

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The more you practice characterization deliberately, the better you'll get at it.

mary rosenblum

When I'm stuck in a long line at a store, if I don't have something with me to work on, I just do characters.

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That is, I'll pick out a person who looks interesting, decide on a backstory that seems to fit his or her appearance...

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and then carry on a conversation about something with that character in my head...

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generally an argument. :-)

sewsteph

How do you prevent all characters sounding too much like you

mary rosenblum

This is the key, and an excercise like the one I've just described is a good way to get better at that, sew.

mary rosenblum

It is VERY intentional...creating a 'different' character.

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You cannot do it 'automatically' without thinking about it.

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And that, of course, is what most novice writers (and many published writers) do.

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They don't think about their character's responses, they just focus on how that character reacts to the plot, without much thought as to WHY he or she reacts that way...

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and guess what? All the characters seem more or less similar and all are more or less similar to the author. Imagine that. :-)

mary rosenblum

The reason is this...every word you speak, every action you make is shaped by your past experience, childhood, world view, and belief system.

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And if your character is different in any of these respects from you (and of course, that character may be different in all those respects)...

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then it requires conscious thought on your part in order to decide what words and actions belong to that different character.

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And you have to think about that every time your character speaks...

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every time your character so much as reaches for a glass of water. (Maybe he'll go get a beer instead)

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This is the Tuesday Forum with me Mary Rosenblum LR Web Editor, fiction and nonfiction writer. We're talking about creating the 'different' character. If you're new here, remember that you need to click on the Ask a Question button or the word bubble next to the red question mark at the top of the screen, or use the ask a question icon in order to ask a question. Your regular send bar won't reach me! You can also type /ask in front of your question in your regular send bar to reach me.

mary rosenblum

This is why characterization lapses in so many stories.

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It's not that it's difficult technically, it just requires a lot of thought.

oddangel

How do you deal with characters that you don't like but are integral to the story? I'm working with one character that really pushes my buttons, and I have difficulty writing her because I find myself muttering "you're such an idiot" under my breath. LOL

mary rosenblum

That is a challenge, odd, because if you don't like that person, you'll tend to hold back, focus on their surface attributes...

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and they can end up flat and shallow.

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You really have to find something of you in that person, I hate to say.

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I don't know about you, but I'm far from a perfect person and while I may not have my negative character's attributes to the same degree...

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I can find echos of the dark things that drive my character in myself...

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and I really spend time putting myself in my character's shoes so that I can understand from her perspective why she does the things she does.

winterpk

so all negative characters r people we've disliked in reali

mary rosenblum

They should be, but they should also be a bit of you, too, winter. :-)

janecj333

It's crucial to find a reason for a character to do stupid things, imo. Maybe to keep a secret, maybe because of a past experience or mental illness. Stupid actions don't exist in a vacuum.

mary rosenblum

Exactly. Neither do evil actions.

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They are not stupid to the character...if they are, then your character suffers from Stupid Character Syndrome.

mary rosenblum

And readers don't believe in him or her.

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And if they exist only to commit evil, they're just another cardboard villain.

mary rosenblum

This is the Tuesday Forum with me Mary Rosenblum LR Web Editor, fiction and nonfiction writer. We're talking about creating the 'different' character. If you're new here, remember that you need to click on the Ask a Question button or the word bubble next to the red question mark at the top of the screen, or use the ask a question icon in order to ask a question. Your regular send bar won't reach me! You can also type /ask in front of your question in your regular send bar to reach me.

idwins

How do you stay focused and not add too many deviations?

mary rosenblum

That's really a matter of self discipline, idwins, of putting the story first above all.

mary rosenblum

I work very hard on character and I could follow all kind of tangents that would be interesting with this character...

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but would detract from the story.

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If I really love some subplot or other, I"ll make extensive notes and do it later as a stand alone story.

mary rosenblum

If you ever collected all my short fiction (quite a job) you'd find that many stories are directly connected to each other or to published novels.

mary rosenblum

They are the subplots that were just too distracting to bring into that novel or that other story.

oddangel

Oh yeah. I'm definitely trying to avoid "Stupid Character Syndrome." She's got a back story. However, this is a short story and I can't include too much backstory without it sounding like exposition.

mary rosenblum

You're right, odd, and this is where craft comes in.

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It's a matter of thinking about her stupid action.

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What in her backstory explains that choice?

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Now, what one comment, action, or comment by another character will allow the reader to guess why she did it?

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You can usually manage to get one hint in there, even in a short story.

winterpk

but villians of our soaps r so popular...most r pure evil

winterpk

just like cardboard villians

mary rosenblum

Sure winter, and so are the villains of a lot of escape fiction...the evil emperor in Star Wars for example.

mary rosenblum

It really boils down to what do you want to write?

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Something shallow or something that has an impact on readers?

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How many people who watch soaps think they're anything other than TV candy?

sundale

Dose every charactor HAVE to have a little bit of me in them? Or is it just a good idea?

mary rosenblum

My feeling, from my own experience and that of other strong character writers is that to make a character real, you need to be able to wear that character's skin...

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you have to really understand what makes them tick.

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And that's really dependent on recognizing some similarities in that person. As I said...

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what is a tiny flaw in you is the main driver for this character perhaps...

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but I feel that the identification is pretty necessary. :-

ink4hyre

What if a character is an animal? How would you express what they are doing/thinking and not allow them to become to human like?

mary rosenblum

Oh, that's a lovely challenge, ink, and I am always SO impressed with writers who (rarely) do animal pov well!

mary rosenblum

That requires thinking about how that animal would perceive things.

mary rosenblum

If a deer looks at a school house, why would she think 'school'?

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Where does a deer get the concept for a school?

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She might think of it as 'people hiding place'.

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She knows hiding place...she beds down in the blackberry thickets.

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And people seem to hide in those funny things.

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A dog might think of that school as little people place...

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because he lives with people and the little ones go there all the time...

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or even the puppy place if he realizes that the small people are the puppies.

oddangel

In my case, her stupid action isn't one of evil. It's more pathetic--she's got an eating disorder (among other issues.) And that's where I'm challenged--I've never had an ED before.

mary rosenblum

That's pretty easy to research, odd. A lot has been written about eating disorders and their causes.s

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And I bet with very little work you could find someone who has had one at some time...

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and with a bit of adroit questioning figure out why.

janecj333

Do you notice in recent reviews of sf and fantasy that the reviewer latches on to an element of absurdity in the story? I'm just not sure that in the interest of being different or unique, that stories need characters whose attributes border on the absurd.

mary rosenblum

I haven't particularly Jane. It might be a particular reviewer or that several authors have used that technique.

winterpk

so how du we decide whts the best preception an animal...

winterpk

shud have? cant diff writers of diff cultures feel a dog ...

winterpk

shud say diff things?.

mary rosenblum

You can have a dog be nothing but a person in a fur coat.

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That's done often enough.

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and certainly a dog from one culture will know different things than another.

mary rosenblum

It's mostly a matter of what you want. Anthropomorphic animals are almost the rule rather than the exception. YOu'll have lots of company.

mary rosenblum

This is the Tuesday Forum with me Mary Rosenblum LR Web Editor, fiction and nonfiction writer. We're talking about creating the 'different' character. If you're new here, remember that you need to click on the Ask a Question button or the word bubble next to the red question mark at the top of the screen, or use the ask a question icon in order to ask a question. Your regular send bar won't reach me! You can also type /ask in front of your question in your regular send bar to reach me.

mary rosenblum

Look at the Redfern series....Jacques doesn't really intend you to think of his characters as animals first.

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They're people first, with a nod to their animal natures.

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And it's a wildly successful book.

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Series, rather.

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It's just what you want to achieve.

mary rosenblum

This is the Tuesday Forum with me Mary Rosenblum LR Web Editor, fiction and nonfiction writer. We're talking about creating the 'different' character. If you're new here, remember that you need to click on the Ask a Question button or the word bubble next to the red question mark at the top of the screen, or use the ask a question icon in order to ask a question. Your regular send bar won't reach me! You can also type /ask in front of your question in your regular send bar to reach me.

mary rosenblum

The hard part about good characterization is that you have to keep it at the front of your brain.

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You need to think about it all the time, in ever scene...what would she really be thinking? What would he say after this guy said this?

mary rosenblum

If you don't think about it consciously, you'l unconsciously put YOUR reactions on the page.

mary rosenblum

This is the Tuesday Forum with me Mary Rosenblum LR Web Editor, fiction and nonfiction writer. We're talking about creating the 'different' character. If you're new here, remember that you need to click on the Ask a Question button or the word bubble next to the red question mark at the top of the screen, or use the ask a question icon in order to ask a question. Your regular send bar won't reach me! You can also type /ask in front of your question in your regular send bar to reach me.

sewsteph

Off topic a bit, I have heard mention here and elsewhere that Long Ridge is offering a novel writing vourde now. What is the link to that?

mary rosenblum

The novel writing course, sew?

mary rosenblum

Yes, LR is.

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You can query Student Services about it. They'll send you the information.

mary rosenblum

I don't think they have alink up on the website yet, sew...

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but as of now, you have to have completed one of the basic courses in order to take it.

mary rosenblum

Winter, I saw your question, send it up here, will you? It's a good one.

jackie7777

Would it help to keep a bio of each of your characters next to you when you are wrtiting to keep you reminded of the characters' backgrounds?

mary rosenblum

Yes indeed, jackie. :-)

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I do that all the time.

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And I add to it as I write, as I think up backstory reasons for behavior, I expand that bio.

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If you're writing a novel it really helps your consistency. :-)

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You don't have your character mention that his mother died when he was ten on page 23 and...

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that his mother died at birth on page 211.

winterpk

one problem i have is writing abt emotions i've never come across

mary rosenblum

That's a real issue, winter.

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You have to extrapolate is all.

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Your charater may feel hatred and maybe you've never experienced a negative emotion that extreme...

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but perhaps you knew this person in high school who made your life miserable and you really really really didn't like her at all.

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That feeling of extreme dislike can be way in to a sense of real hatred, an emotion that is more extreme than just really disliking someone...]

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but not all that different.

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You'll get the 'flavor' of extreme dislike.

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And how many of your readers will have felt a hatred that allowed them to kill someone, say?

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Hopefully not many. :-)

mary rosenblum

If you start with happy, sad, fearful, you've about covered the spectrum and everything else is a variation on those basics.

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They give you the 'flavor'.

winterpk

but wont that at some point look "borrowed"?

winterpk

its a real prob esp when talking of social segments

winterpk

if i've never been poor/rich i'm bound to leave sthg out

mary rosenblum

That is certainly true and why many characters of other ethnicity or social standing seem shallow.

mary rosenblum

You really do have to have some insights into the world view of someone who is of another culture or social strat...

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or all you will do is use your world view.

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And that is going to require research.

onepozy

So you portray the villan like you imagine he is thinking

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I think I know what you mean, one. :-)

mary rosenblum

Yes, you want to portray a villain who doesn't think of HIMSELF as a villain.

mary rosenblum

He can BE a villain, I don't mean to excuse him.

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But he knows why he's doing what he's doing. It makes sense to him, even if his 'sense' scares us.

winterpk

thats the hardst.. part gd research..i've been thrashed 4 it

mary rosenblum

Yep. It sure is the hardest part, winter.

sundale

How much background is too much? I've got a pair of charactors that have ben through alot and it's the basis of who they are.

mary rosenblum

I don't think you can have too much, sun, unless you spend the rest of your life researching and never write anything! BUT...it should not all go into the story.

mary rosenblum

Think of character background as an iceberg. Only the tip shows up in the story.

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But because you know all of it, you'll give those characters consistent reactions all the way through.

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I would choose the events from their past that have had the most direct effect on these characters...

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and let them get mentioned somehow.

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So that the reader knows why these people behave like this.

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If your character behaves significantly outside the 'norm' of human behavior, it's wise to include a hint ...

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of just why this person is, say, quite paranoid, or perhaps very fearful of authorities.

geezer

How deeply should one go into characterization with a secondary character?

mary rosenblum

As deeply as you can, geeze. I usually know my secondaries nearly as well as I know my main characters.

mary rosenblum

But I won't bring their backstory into the piece much...they are not center stage like the MC>

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Still, I want their behavior to be consistent. For that I have to know them very well.

mary rosenblum

A 'spear carrier', someone who simply fills a walk on part...the soldier at the gate, the innkeeper, what have you.

mary rosenblum

Doesn't really need much backstory, since he/she might only appear briefly once or twice.

mary rosenblum

There you can draw a vivd, superficial character, and let the reader fill in the blank.

tory

Mary, I've heard don't include information more than once; it weakens the story. But--if a character has an unusla quirk--say nervous smiling, or easily startled--whouldn't we show that in scenes and conversations throughout the book? "Her irritating, ever-[resent smile." etc.

mary rosenblum

That quirk is part of that character's behavior and yes, it should show up more than once if it's a nervous habit, but beware!

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One time too often and readers start noticing it. Then it stands out like the proverbial sore thumb.

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Once or twice may be enough.

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Do it early on in the story and the reader realizes, okay, she always twirls her hair around her finger when she's talking to someone...

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and after that you don't need to mention it. The reader will see it.

mary rosenblum

This is the Tuesday Forum with me Mary Rosenblum LR Web Editor, fiction and nonfiction writer. We're talking about creating the 'different' character. If you're new here, remember that you need to click on the Ask a Question button or the word bubble next to the red question mark at the top of the screen, or use the ask a question icon in order to ask a question. Your regular send bar won't reach me! You can also type /ask in front of your question in your regular send bar to reach me.

dawndancer

How do you research a person's reactions to events or feelings when they are from a different culture?

mary rosenblum

That's difficult to pull off, dawn, because cultural differences have to do with world view.

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The best way is to be close friends with people in that culture.

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So you know how they regard family, duty, the work ethic, authority, and the like.

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The second best way to research is to read a mix of personal narratives by people in the culture and nonfiction works about the culture as a whole...

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although I've found I get the most help from personal narratives. Still, don't depend on one.

mary rosenblum

That person might not be a 'cultural norm'.

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And that goes for various socio-economic groups within our country, too.

mary rosenblum

A huge mix of things contributes to cultural outlook.

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But some consistent traits generally stand out.

winterpk

is there a safe way to go cross-cultural with characters?

winterpk

sometimes what we write may be offensive for that culture

mary rosenblum

A: Know the culture well enough to know if you're being accurate and then you'll know if that's offensive or not.

mary rosenblum

B: Get someone from that culture to read it and ask for a reaction. Then listen to it!

sewsteph

Do you find it hard to characterize children? I read so many books where children do things that don't seem age appropriate and it is annoying.

mary rosenblum

It's very hard, sew, and I get a lot of novice stories featuring children with not only a college level vocabulary, but the world view, say, of a 40 year old adult.

mary rosenblum

It's a good idea to hang around with kids if you don't have any, to get a sense of how kids look at the world.

mary rosenblum

They do not have the resevoir of experience that adults do, and they tend to react to things very differently than...

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someone 20 or more years older! :-

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This is the Tuesday Forum with me Mary Rosenblum LR Web Editor, fiction and nonfiction writer. We're talking about creating the 'different' character. If you're new here, remember that you need to click on the Ask a Question button or the word bubble next to the red question mark at the top of the screen, or use the ask a question icon in order to ask a question. Your regular send bar won't reach me! You can also type /ask in front of your question in your regular send bar to reach me.

speckledorf

Another way to meet people from different cultures are culture specific chat rooms. Many want to learn English and will gladly talk about their world too. Of course you have to watch out for the occasional creep:--)

mary rosenblum

Oh, good idea, speckle.

mary rosenblum

Just be sure that the person you're talking to IS of that culture. Remember...people wear many masks in chat rooms.

mary rosenblum

It's a great place, by the way, to try out your 'kid' or your 'other gender' character. :-)

mary rosenblum

Tamora Pierce, who is a powerful YA writer, hangs out in YA chatrooms quite often.

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When she was my guest, she specifically suggested that for writers who wanted to tackle ya.

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(YA = young adult)

sundale

something I found helpful for developing a charactor is sim groups. Places where you create a charactor and role play. Thre you can try out a charactor fairly safely.

mary rosenblum

I've always thought the role playing games were great character-building exercises, myself, sun.

mary rosenblum

As long as you don't get sucked into the black hole of role playing, never to emerge again! :-)

gskearney

Please tell people not to pretend to be someone they're not in the YA chatrooms. Not only can they get in trouble, but it's not fair to the children. --gk

mary rosenblum

Well, I think that depends Gary.

mary rosenblum

If you're out there to disseminate a particular view or, as many do, prey on kids, that's one thing.

mary rosenblum

If you want to drop into a YA chat and pretend that you're 13, what's the issue? OTher than that you may make a fool out of yourself and discover...

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that your '13 year old' characterization has serious flaws!

mary rosenblum

It's like the occasional kid who hangs around here pretending to be an adult. :-)

mary rosenblum

This is the Tuesday Forum with me Mary Rosenblum LR Web Editor, fiction and nonfiction writer. We're talking about creating the 'different' character. If you're new here, remember that you need to click on the Ask a Question button or the word bubble next to the red question mark at the top of the screen, or use the ask a question icon in order to ask a question. Your regular send bar won't reach me! You can also type /ask in front of your question in your regular send bar to reach me.

mary rosenblum

I do cross gender stuff now and again...practicing my male characterization. :-)

mary rosenblum

I find you get the most by being a rare contributor to the conversation and just paying attention to what and how people speak.

geezer

So you end up in a chat room with 30 authors pretending to be 13

mary rosenblum

Now that's a distinct possibility, geeze, LOL.

mary rosenblum

You know, that could make a very humorous story!

mary rosenblum

The real issue with chat rooms is that you don't know if the person representing themself as X, Y, or Z...

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IS X, Y, or Z.

mary rosenblum

YOu're much safer doing your research in the flesh..

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You have plenty of opportunities to do that.

winterpk

one more Q abt culture Mary...in fiction its ez to get away

winterpk

with characters but in NF its rpresenting a true country

winterpk

and if i'm doing my own country how can i stop my ...

winterpk

readers from misinterpreting my culture thru me?

mary rosenblum

YOu can't. Your readers ARE going to interpret your culture through you.

mary rosenblum

You can't help yourself either. We all reveal our own world views in our writing, whether we mean to or not.

mary rosenblum

Hopefully, your book or story is not the ONLY one that the reader will every read written by someone from your culture.

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But you're not misrepresenting it.

mary rosenblum

You're representing it through your lense.

mary rosenblum

That's why reading one book written, say, by an Iranian, will not give you a perfect picture of Iranian culture.

winterpk

that means i can never give an unbiased view

mary rosenblum

Nobody ever gives an unbiased view, winter, even when we're supposed to, as in the newspapers.

mary rosenblum

I do not believe it is possible to write a perfectly neutral and unbiased piece of work.

mary rosenblum

Bias can be very subtle, but it's there in terms of what we mention, what we leave out, how our characters behave and what they do.

winterpk

that means truth is reflective of what we believe

winterpk

thats not fair work wont u say?

mary rosenblum

Truth IS reflective of what we believe. One person's truth is another person's lie.

mary rosenblum

Look at the religious conflicts that have arisen from just that.

mary rosenblum

"History is written by the victors' is an old cliche that is sadly true.

sewsteph

Wouldn't the perfectly unbiased view be a little boring as it is our opinions and views that give our writing colour?

mary rosenblum

Even more than that, sew, even if you write in colorless nouns and verbs without description, what you choose to include and what you choose to leave out changes 'truth'.

mary rosenblum

Even a videotape is not necessarily 'truth' depending on what the cameraman focused on.

winterpk

so supp i want to make a controversial issue rite...

winterpk

that wud take an entire lifetime!

mary rosenblum

It would, winter, and it would take many many stories, articles, commentaries.

mary rosenblum

But...that is one of the powers of writers.

mary rosenblum

You can chip away at the 'untruths' you see around you by writing stories that make people question those truths.

mary rosenblum

I have been doing that all of my career.

mary rosenblum

It's hard to take on the big issues, but you can make people rethink their assumptions.

geezer

If you jump off a cliff, I gurantee you'll go splat no matter if you think you can fly.

mary rosenblum

Yeah, but that's physics, geeze, and we're not really talking about science.

mary rosenblum

Sheesh, even there, any more, you have issues!

winterpk

is ur approach subtle or upfront?

mary rosenblum

Always subtle, winter. I banged hard into the reality when I first began writing that people see a soapbox...the flee.

mary rosenblum

But you can bring them to the same question by a more roundabout method.

mary rosenblum

I know it works, because readers have mentioned it to me and some are even annoyed that they wake up in the middle of...

mary rosenblum

the night and think about stuff. heheh.

mary rosenblum

Score.

winterpk

i guess being frontal leads to more conflict

mary rosenblum

No, it merely leads to avoidance, winter.

mary rosenblum

The people who don't want to hear what you say won't read it.

mary rosenblum

You're preaching to the choir, then.

mary rosenblum

If readers see a message they don't agree with...and they're easy to spot...they don't read the story.

mary rosenblum

Why should they?

mary rosenblum

They know you're wrong.

mary rosenblum

If you quietly involve them with a character they can identify with, they like and respect, and suddenly...gasp...they...

mary rosenblum

realize that this person is someone they would not approve of...it can make them reconsider. Just a bit.

winterpk

hmm...so its tricky to make them see they arent rite either

mary rosenblum

Yeap.

mary rosenblum

Nobody likes to be shown that they are not right.

mary rosenblum

But if you open that door a crack...'hey, it might work this way, too'...

mary rosenblum

rather than 'hey, YOU are wrong'.

mary rosenblum

Often, they'll peak inside.

mary rosenblum

Wow, this has turned out to be a bit on the philosophical side of writing, has it not? :-)

mary rosenblum

But this is where genuine power lies in writing, in my opinion.

mary rosenblum

It is the power to make people who are sure of their world, question it just a bit.

mary rosenblum

That is, I believe, how you can make changes with your words.

winterpk

ok but as a writer a person how do i handle rejections...

winterpk

from my readers?

mary rosenblum

If you please everybody, your writing is pretty bland winter. :-)

mary rosenblum

You are NEVER going to please everybody.

winterpk

since not everybody wud peak at the first attempt

mary rosenblum

Some will. Others will not.

mary rosenblum

Learn to tell a strong story.

winterpk

ok so challanging a few is always good then :)

mary rosenblum

Yep. :-)

mary rosenblum

And I am going to have to end this promptly however.

mary rosenblum

I have an appointment this afternoon, so I need to hit the road here.

mary rosenblum

We should continue this discussion, winter. :-)

mary rosenblum

It's my favorite topic in relation to fiction writing in general.

mary rosenblum

another time!

mary rosenblum

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mary rosenblum

I'll post the transcript in the usual place.

mary rosenblum

Writing Craft: Forum Transcript.

mary rosenblum

See you all in the AM tomorrow.

mary rosenblum

Drop by then, winter, and we can talk about this some more.

 

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