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Reasonable Resolutions: 1/4/05

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Tue Jan 04 12:03:32 2005

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Tue Jan 04 13:33:20 2005



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mary rosenblum

Hello, all!

mary rosenblum

This is the Tuesday Forum with me, Mary Rosenblum, LR Web Editor, fiction and nonfiction writer. We're talking about resolutions today. If you're new here, remember that you need to click on the 'Ask a Question' button or the 'word bubble' next to the red question mark at the top of the screen, or use the ask a question icon in order to ask a question. Your regular 'send' bar won't reach me! You can also type /ask in front of your question to reach me.

mary rosenblum

I thought we could talk about writing resolutions today...since most people make them and often they are really self defeating.

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But they sure can be good, too, if you set yourself a resolution that you can actually fulfill!

margieh

Nice job on the anthology, Mary! Nice job everyone!

mary rosenblum

Yes, I was VERY impressed with the quality of the submissions. Sure made my job tough! But that's a good thing!

mary rosenblum

For those of you who might not know about this...

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the first LR Christmas Anthology is posted in Writing Craft: 2004 Christmas Anthology.

mary rosenblum

And do read the introduction. It explains the selection process I used...

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with is very much the way any editor selects content for a theme anthology or a magazine issue.

christopher dale

What about a Valentine's Contest? Same rules??? ;-)

mary rosenblum

Chris, if you can figure out how to give me three more working hours a day I'll happily do a Valentine conetest, lol...

mary rosenblum

this was on my own time and took the place of a short story that would otherwise be out to an editor by now.

bengalrose

Darn! I missed it. Oh well...there's always next year.

mary rosenblum

I'll probably do one next year. I think it's too good a learning experience to pass up, to be honest.

mary rosenblum

What is valuable, I think, in this anthology was that I coulud make the selection process transparent...more or less...

mary rosenblum

because I know that when I started out, I had no clue that the editorial process...at least in terms of selection...

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was anything other than 'good enough, not good enough'...

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and that's just where the process begins. Content DOES matter.

mary rosenblum

I had several strong examples of various types of story and I only had ten slots, so I had to choose between them.

mary rosenblum

I had to decide which of the three similar stories suited what I wanted to do with the anthology...

mary rosenblum

and this is why you really really really need to understand that a rejection is not a statement about the quality of your story or query...

mary rosenblum

You don't know exactly what the editor has in mind...no guidelines are THAT specific...

mary rosenblum

and you don't know what the editor has on his/her desk.

mary rosenblum

Ideally, I would have posted all the stories and given my reasons for selection or not, but the number of unpaid hours that come right out of my writing time was overwhelming...

mary rosenblum

I simply couldn't do it that way.

roe

when you say content are you referring to idea or actual writing?

mary rosenblum

Both, roe.

mary rosenblum

The idea is sort of the 'gross' level of content...does the idea fit the theme I have in mind for this issue/anthology.

mary rosenblum

The way the idea is handled is the 'refined' level of content..

mary rosenblum

for example, I had three or four

mary rosenblum

Christmas ghost stories, at least four family Christmas stories, and a couple of Christmas cat stories...

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they were all similar ideas. The question was...which version handled the idea in the strongest fashion for what I wanted.

mary rosenblum

Editing is a creative process...which I never appreciated until I did it a few times, LOL.

mary rosenblum

At least in terms of collections or magazine issues.

mary rosenblum

Book editing is a different type of work.

mary rosenblum

This is the Tuesday Forum with me, Mary Rosenblum, LR Web Editor, fiction and nonfiction writer. We're talking about resolutions today. If you're new here, remember that you need to click on the 'Ask a Question' button or the 'word bubble' next to the red question mark at the top of the screen, or use the ask a question icon in order to ask a question. Your regular 'send' bar won't reach me! You can also type /ask in front of your question to reach me.

paja

Mary, the intro you gave each story will help us define the kinds of writing we do.

mary rosenblum

Well, it won't define the type of writing you DO, but it will help you identify what I mean by 'type' of story...

mary rosenblum

None of you will ALWAYS write that type of story...

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But once you understand better what an editor really does and how an editor makes choices...

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it can help make those rejections less monumental!

mary rosenblum

You can begin to realize that a no thanks just means your story didn't fit, not that it wasn't good enough...

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and another editor putting together another issue or another anthology might think quite differently.

mary rosenblum

Too many writers file very good stories for eternity because they got a rejection or two. Too bad.

mary rosenblum

So what are

wolf122

You mentioned your valuable writing time--how many articles does an author have to write to 'break even' financially, and how does that affect the amount of time you write daily/weekly?

mary rosenblum

Wolf, my writing time is valuable because it's scarce! I intentionally keep it that way. Keeps me appreciative...

mary rosenblum

but LR students, the website, and my acreage...which feeds me...limit the number of hours I can spend writing.

mary rosenblum

If I wasn't teaching LR students and running this workshop, I'd be putting in about 20 hours per week doing nonfiction work.

mary rosenblum

Or writing romance or something else that I could sell lots of.

pook

Mary, what makes you determine whether a story is publishable or not?

mary rosenblum

Craft, pook...

mary rosenblum

'publishable' is a very subjective thing.

mary rosenblum

One editor's publishable is another editors' marginal...

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if you read a lot you've surely seen the variation in quality of the prose.

mary rosenblum

BUT...what an editor looks for in 'publishable' is can a wide variety of readers...

mary rosenblum

see what the author shows, get the story, not get confused, and not have to work hard to wade through bad grammar.

mary rosenblum

But let's talk about resolutions!

mary rosenblum

The good ones and the ones you might want to rethink!

ducky

Ducky's main resolution: Sell something I wrote. Anything, doesn't matter what. Just sell something.

mary rosenblum

Ducky you get the gold star for the most common resolution out there! :-)

mary rosenblum

And one of the most dangerous!

mary rosenblum

You have very little control over the 'selling' part.

mary rosenblum

Unless you start your own magazine and buy your own work!

mary rosenblum

Selling will happen when you reach a certain level of craft...

mary rosenblum

but it is entirely dependant on what you write as to how quickly you break that 'sell' barrier.

mary rosenblum

If you want to write mainstream fiction, you will take much longer to sell because that is a small market...for short fiction at least...

mary rosenblum

and very crowded with pros.

mary rosenblum

If you want to write craft articles for the craft magazines, yeah, you'll probably sell this year.

christopher dale

for those of use who didn't make it (Or even did) and want to send it to some publiucation, when would be a good time (Being a Chritmas theme and all)

mary rosenblum

Oh, by all means send your Christmas shorts out soon...I'd say not yet, but in the spring, so that you have time to try several markets. They're short shorts, so editors often have room for them even late in the production, but by September...

mary rosenblum

most of the Christmas issues of mags will be filled.

mary rosenblum

So Ducky, if you really want to SELL this year...

mary rosenblum

take a look at what is out there...

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and assess your own experience, and target nonfiction magazines where you can offer an article backed by experience.

mary rosenblum

Read a couple of issues of the magazine and decide what the editor is looking for and then query with an offer for that.

mary rosenblum

Don't aim for a feature...not when you're a novice and unpublished.

mary rosenblum

Look over the 'departments' and see if you can write a small piece for one of those...

mary rosenblum

it's a great way to break in and begin to sell to that mag.

speckledorf

So it is better so say I'll submit a certain amount in a certain time frame?

mary rosenblum

That's much safer, speck.

mary rosenblum

You can DO that.

mary rosenblum

You cannot guarantee that you'll sell this year...why set yourself up?

roe

My resolution is to write, write , write. that i know I can keep

mary rosenblum

Yep!

mary rosenblum

The only writing resolution I've made in the last many years is to write every day...at least one sentence.

mary rosenblum

I keep it.

tkat_2

I'd like to get PAID for what I publish :)

mary rosenblum

Then you need to target publications that not only pay, but need something you can provide.

mary rosenblum

It is much harder to sell what you choose to write than to sell something you write for an obvious need!

mary rosenblum

That is how my friend Deborah Wood, who has a weekly column for The Oregonian and makes her entire living freelancing..

mary rosenblum

did it. She looked over the market for what was NOT being done and pitched that to editors.

writelegends

My resolution: Finish something and get it submitted

mary rosenblum

That is a GREAT resolution, writel!

mary rosenblum

That is the stumbling block for so many writers!

mary rosenblum

Finishing...

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Submitting.

mary rosenblum

Hint: If you don't do one or the other guess what? You NEVER get rejected....think about that. :-)

mary rosenblum

Here's a resolution for you...did anyone do this one? I have!

mary rosenblum

Get at least one rejection slip this year.

mary rosenblum

Easy huh? Not if you're not sending stuff out.... ahem

paja

a Paja resolution is to find a way to STOP being overwhelmed by marketing lists and the electronic piles of guidelines.

mary rosenblum

Good one, paja...

mary rosenblum

those can sure be demons to face.

mary rosenblum

Try reading them objectively instead of as huge hurdles to leap, or potential rejections of YOU. .

mary rosenblum

That's how most of us perceive them at first, I think. I sure did!

christopher dale

My Resolution - Write more - learn more craft - write more - get rid of ToBes - write more - spell check... Uh, did I mention WRITE MORE???

mary rosenblum

You're spell checker is fine, Chris. Heheh. You just need to READ it after you spell check it....

mary rosenblum

Good resolutions, especially the Write More part.

mary rosenblum

This is the Tuesday Forum with me, Mary Rosenblum, LR Web Editor, fiction and nonfiction writer. We're talking about resolutions today. If you're new here, remember that you need to click on the 'Ask a Question' button or the 'word bubble' next to the red question mark at the top of the screen, or use the ask a question icon in order to ask a question. Your regular 'send' bar won't reach me! You can also type /ask in front of your question to reach me.

birdonawire

Mary, what exactly is a clip?

mary rosenblum

Bird, a clip is simply a published piece.

mary rosenblum

They're called

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clips because if you are writing for nonfiction, you simply copy the magazine article you've published, clip it out and send it so the editor can read it.

mary rosenblum

But in fiction, you can mention that you had a story published in this or that mag...

mary rosenblum

and if you have LOTS of clips, you might send one or two that are most like what you are querying about and mention your others.

mary rosenblum

No editor wants a huge box full of cut up magazine pages! LOL

realityczech

I decided to keep my resolutions small and achievable. "Write at least one sentence every day." (Because I know that the hardest part for me is simply sitting down to write at all, and because I know that once I do, I almost NEVER stop at just one sentence!).

mary rosenblum

Gee, reality, that sounds familiar! :-) Actually, what that does for you is twofold...

mary rosenblum

first you keep a sort of continuity going...even if you only write that sentence, you THINK about that project.

mary rosenblum

And secondly...you succeed at a writing goal EVERY day...

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believe me, in this business of self doubt that is priceless!

smilingsunflower

My main writing resolution is to get an article or story in the mail every week. I created a writing calendar to break up writing projects into parts to accomplish this goal. I also have a back log of articles and stories I'm sitting on to tweak and get in the mail. I figure if a journalist can write two stories a day for publication, I should be able to krutz out a story a week.

mary rosenblum

That could be a dangerous goal, smiling, but it sounds as if you're tackling it in a very organized manner.

mary rosenblum

And if you want to eventually be a full time freelancer, this is exactly what you are going to do. So good for you!

writelegends

Where do you store your "one sentence's" Mary?

mary rosenblum

On the last line of whatever project I'm working on, writel... :-) Or if it's a story idea, as a separate file.

dbamarsha

So if you have a certain medical condition and want to write about it, will you still need to incorporate professional backing?

mary rosenblum

Depends on what you are offering, marsha.

mary rosenblum

If you write a personal narrative about your struggles with MS, or a diabetic child, you don't need a pro to back you up...

mary rosenblum

you are sharing your experiences with others.

mary rosenblum

If you want to talk about the disease then yes, you will.

christopher dale

I KNOW this has been aslked before, but... When we query, do we wend our "resume" with it, or wait until asked?

mary rosenblum

Send it Chris, but only the part that applies to THIS article.

mary rosenblum

If you are querying about writing a computer piece for a computer mag...you need to let the editor know why YOU should write this...

mary rosenblum

and you cite your experience.

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But don't include things like where you got your BA for example...

t green

my resolution is to learn all i can about marketing B/4 i start submitting again

t green

oh, and one more (besides the marketing one) ... keep a record of my dreams (since i dream in vivid shades of absurdity)

mary rosenblum

I keep trying to do the dream thing, but when I'm writing...and when am I NOT...I don't remember ANY dreams.

mary rosenblum

But don't put off writing forever, t...it doesn't take that much to learn about marketing!

wyrde

Is it better to write within something like a christmas theme, which is seasonal, or more general work that can be published any time of the year

mary rosenblum

Wyrde, there are a variety of ways to approach writing.

mary rosenblum

For fiction, you can simply write a story and then find the market...

mary rosenblum

OR...if you are very familiar with a particular fiction market and have a sense of what that editor likes to publish...

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you can write intentionally for that editor.

mary rosenblum

In nonfiction you really need to start with the market and pitch to that market rather than write first and then look for a market...

mary rosenblum

although if something really moves you, go ahead and write it first.

paja

I'm not like Roe. I have trouble writing just because I think I want to.

mary rosenblum

A good resolution there might be that 'fifteen minutes a day no matter what' resolution.

mary rosenblum

Even if you just write down, 'I hate this stupid resolution and I dont' know why I'm sitting here...' for fifteen minutes! :-)

t green

oh heavens, mary... i'm still submitting! just trying to better target my market / audience b/4 i submit to that particular market... that's what i mean!

mary rosenblum

Oh, good! :-)

mary rosenblum

This is the Tuesday Forum with me, Mary Rosenblum, LR Web Editor, fiction and nonfiction writer. We're talking about resolutions today. If you're new here, remember that you need to click on the 'Ask a Question' button or the 'word bubble' next to the red question mark at the top of the screen, or use the ask a question icon in order to ask a question. Your regular 'send' bar won't reach me! You can also type /ask in front of your question to reach me.

smilingsunflower

Another writing resolution I have is to continue with morning pages--journal at least three pages a day and finish a spiral notebook a month.

mary rosenblum

As long as that doesn't take away from your writing for others time, smiling.

mbvoelker

Identify and research a potential market each month.

mary rosenblum

Excellent goal, mb.

mary rosenblum

Taht's a good one for all novice writers, actually.

mary rosenblum

The more you learn how to analyze markets or identify an editor's preference in fiction...

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the more successful you'll be at selling.

bengalrose

To ALWAYS have at least one writing project going at all times...no dead time :-)

mary rosenblum

That's a resolution EVERY aspiring writer shoul have!

mary rosenblum

At LEAST one!

mary rosenblum

Good one, bengal!

geezer

My resolution is to take the novel writing course. :-)

mary rosenblum

Well, I'm doing my best to accomodate you geezer...just finishing part Six out of Nine today!

wyrde

expects to have very little trouble finishing things once he's gotten around to dealing with his procrastination

mary rosenblum

Ah procrastination...now theres a common problem!

mary rosenblum

Sometimes that 'fifteen minutes at THIS time of day' habit really helps.

mary rosenblum

It's like taking that morning shower, or doing one of those other daily rituals we get used to...

mary rosenblum

you don't even think 'should I take my shower'? Should I do this or that...you just DO it...

mary rosenblum

Find a place to carve out that ten or fifteen minutes and make it a habit.

gskearney

Anyone can write and publish their own family newsletter, and if you include letters from other family members you get editing experience as well. I've learned a lot from mine, and believe me family member won't hesitate to tell you about your mistakes.

mary rosenblum

That's a marvelous suggestions, gary.

mary rosenblum

It's good practice for anyone who wants to write...it's much easier to learn by fixing other peoples' problems than to learn by fixing your own!

mary rosenblum

And in this day of email, far less expensive and time consuming.

speckledorf

I got my one rejection already this year...will have to set my goal for something higher:-)

mary rosenblum

That's right, speck. :-) You started out right though...stuff is out and more is going out.

mary rosenblum

This is the Tuesday Forum with me, Mary Rosenblum, LR Web Editor, fiction and nonfiction writer. We're talking about resolutions today. If you're new here, remember that you need to click on the 'Ask a Question' button or the 'word bubble' next to the red question mark at the top of the screen, or use the ask a question icon in order to ask a question. Your regular 'send' bar won't reach me! You can also type /ask in front of your question to reach me.

paja

I get confused by all the variables and don't actually know where my stories might fit.

mary rosenblum

Some of that is solved by reading, paja..

mary rosenblum

all guidelines sound alike.

mary rosenblum

Alas, it does involve money, but it's really worth buying sample copies and reading them, then making notes to yourself about what you find in that magazine...

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especially in fiction.

realityczech

Here's a resolution: Hold my submission packets at least 24 hours before mailing them out. I can't tell you how many mistakes (or better ways to say something) I've found 2 seconds after I've dropped my packet in the mail!!!

mary rosenblum

Yeah, a brief cooling off period helps those homonyms stand out! But realize that we ALL think of all the zits the instant we drop that ms in the mail or hit 'send'...

writermom

why would submitting one thing a week be a dangerous goal

mary rosenblum

Well, writer, what if you're a working single mom, dealing with housework, laundry, school, doctor visits, shopping, not to mention a 40 hour work week?

mary rosenblum

Maybe you simply CAN'T do it this week. There really aren't enough hours, not even for sleep.

mary rosenblum

You can really end up feeling 'I've failed' and then putting off writing because it makes you feel so bad.

mary rosenblum

Failure is a HUGE issue in writing...it is probably the biggest demon we have to fight...

mary rosenblum

so don't set yourself up to fail.

mary rosenblum

That's why realistic goals are very important.

smilingsunflower

My writing goal isn't so far fetched since I've already published 9 articles and am on assignment to do another. I just finished my LR course. My diploma just came in the mail. I had a great instructor! Kris Franklin

mary rosenblum

Congrats, Smiling! You're doing fine, and as I said, you are approaching your goal in a very organized manner.

smilingsunflower

The reason submitting one piece a week is okay for me is because I write full time and I'm an empty nester. I have a notebook full of rejection letters. I'm just going to continue to work on getting my work out there. I love the daily process. If something comes up and I only get two articles in the mail in a month, that's okay.

mary rosenblum

And there you go...for YOU it's a reasonable goal and one you're approaching in a logical manner.

mary rosenblum

For that working single parent it would be a disaster.

realityczech

Many FREE issues of magazines at your local library. Ours even lets us check out back issues.

mary rosenblum

That's an excellent place to start, reality. Our library also has a large magazine section, but do some of your market research at the big box bookstores with a large magazine section...

mary rosenblum

AND...do some online with Google.

mary rosenblum

Some niche magazines have too small a readership to make it into the bookstores and they tend to be the mags most hungry for new writers...

mary rosenblum

the pay is awful, but they ARE clips and you DO get paid.

rslas

I am having trouble getting to the Forum. Please help

mary rosenblum

well, I thing rslas has given up, but if he/she shows up again, would someone sugget that question to Frank at the 'help desk' would be a good idea? :-) THanks.

realityczech

Can't we just tack a paragraph regarding our expertise on the particular topic into our cover or query letter, rather than sending a whole resume?

birdonawire

What do you include in your writer's resume?

mary rosenblum

That's what I do, reality, unless it's my first time to sub and the editor specifically asks for a resume in the guidelines...

mary rosenblum

Then I include it.

mary rosenblum

As to what to mention...

mary rosenblum

it depends on what the article is about in nonfiction.

mary rosenblum

if I'm querying about an article on dog training, I'll mention all my experience as a dog trainer, what classes I teach, what titles my dogs have won, and I'll mention that I'm a published writer and list some of the nonfiction and top fiction publications.

mary rosenblum

If I'm pitching an article on writing for say Writers Digest, I'll focus on my track record as a published author...list my awards, my sales, and my work for LR.

christopher dale

My hardest thing is ideas. I only need a starting point to see a story, but seeing the starting point is uaully hard for me. I need to hear a story, see a moive, read a book, have a dream, have a conversation... Well you get the picture. :-)

mary rosenblum

There's nothing wrong with getting your starting point from other things you have read, movies, what have you.

mary rosenblum

The more you tell stories, the better you get at finding your own starting points.

mary rosenblum

This is the Tuesday Forum with me, Mary Rosenblum, LR Web Editor, fiction and nonfiction writer. We're talking about resolutions today. If you're new here, remember that you need to click on the 'Ask a Question' button or the 'word bubble' next to the red question mark at the top of the screen, or use the ask a question icon in order to ask a question. Your regular 'send' bar won't reach me! You can also type /ask in front of your question to reach me.

roe

I don't always write because I want to LOL sometimes I write because I HAVE to. like in the middle of the night

mary rosenblum

I'm laughing. Been THERE lately. Even my dogs are getting tired of the light on at 3 AM!

paja

is it really ok to research just one market a month? I maybe could do that w/o overwhelm.

mary rosenblum

Sure, paja.

mary rosenblum

Look, folks, this is not a race.

mary rosenblum

There is no 'cut off date' for succeeding or failing!

mary rosenblum

Realize that you will be writing for the rest of your lives...

mary rosenblum

your stories/ideas won't evaporate at the next New Year!

mary rosenblum

If you can only write a hundred words a day, that's half a novel in a year...

mary rosenblum

And the way you work today is not set in stone...you don't have to do it that way forever.

chatty lady

I have been investigating the Flash Fictioin markets they

chatty lady

interest ne, is that still good writing veneu?

mary rosenblum

Yes it is, chatty.

mary rosenblum

It's a strong market right now, doesn't pay much, but some of the short short markets are well respected.

mary rosenblum

It's a publication and you can write a LOT of short shorts. Good chance to try a lot of styles, types of stuff and see what works.

writermom

Mary if I've finished the basics course at ICL but am interested in continuing aty Longridge what steps do I have to take

mary rosenblum

Just call student services or email them from this website...they'll help you, don't worry.

mary rosenblum

I love former ICL students! They already know the basics!

bengalrose

Mary, I just got back from a Christmas time trip to the city of Avalon on the California island of Santa Catalina. I have started a travel logue, but I've never written one before. What are some good publications I could review for travel logue?

mary rosenblum

Go to the library or bookstore, bengal, and start reading travel mags...

mary rosenblum

each one has a different style, slant, focus.

mary rosenblum

Find the ones that will suit your travelogue the best and query those editors. Do it now, not AFTER you write the piece.

mbvoelker

Marketing is my weak point (along with procrastination), so I'm targeting my resolution to dealing with said weak point.

mary rosenblum

That's the way to go about it mb!

realityczech

Maybe we SHOULD hook our writing goals to our other SHOULDS: May NOT eat until I've written at least one paragraph.

mary rosenblum

That can work, reality. :-)

writelegends

Does one have to be published to become an editor?

mary rosenblum

There's no test or license to edit writel...

mary rosenblum

many editors never were published or rarely were published..

mary rosenblum

some people like to edit, not to write.

mary rosenblum

The best editor I ever worked with, Jim Turner of Arkham House, never wrote at all.

mary rosenblum

But he LOVED good writing and good stories and worked really hard to publish the best fiction in the best form...

wyrde

A friend of mine told me about browsing a bookstore, and seeing a book on how not to procrastinate and thought it might be a good book to have. He decided to come back and get it later, then realized what he had just done...

mary rosenblum

I'm laughining, wyrde!

smilingsunflower

If you never give up, you will never fail.

mary rosenblum

That's a good one, smiling. Here's another...

mary rosenblum

Whether you think you can or think you can't...you're right.

wyrde

what is flash fiction?

mary rosenblum

Wyrde, that's another term for 'short short'...usually under 1500 words, and different publications have different top limits.

diamond2007

do you find for a resolution regarding to write every day it's good to include a length or amount of time spent writting each day? and what is better an amount of time or a length?

mary rosenblum

Whatever works for you, diamond. You can say a paragraph or fifteen minutes or what have you.

mary rosenblum

That paragraph might take five minutes or two hours...

mary rosenblum

so be realistic...

mary rosenblum

and if you say fifteen minutes, that means fifteen minutes of writing, not staring at the screen. :-)

mary rosenblum

Fine tune the rules to suit YOUR needs.

chatty lady

Bruce Holland said I was good at it and its fun too.

mary rosenblum

Good, so do it, chatty! :-)

mary rosenblum

There are a lot of markets. I think it was Michael Arnzen who mentioned some good short short markets during our last interview...the links are in the transcript.

mary rosenblum

Just google 'flash fiction' and see what you get.

chatty lady

I am, got alot of markets from the forum you had earlier.

mary rosenblum

Good.

mary rosenblum

Take an honest look at your own weaknesses...

mary rosenblum

and find the resolution that addresses that weakness but in a such a way that you can succeed.

mary rosenblum

Again, the biggest demon we face is that sense of failure.

mary rosenblum

I know more than one talented writer who quit because of that particular shoulder vulture..

mary rosenblum

and it's a very debilitating one believe me.

mary rosenblum

There are so many ways to feel that you're a failure in this biz...

mary rosenblum

mainly because the standards of success can be so false...

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that it is a VERY bad idea to set yourself up for failure. You'll have to deal with out outside pressures...don't add to them!

mary rosenblum

But honestly addresssing your own weakness is a good way to get beyond the wannabe stage.

mary rosenblum

To be honest, handling rejection slips was the hardest thing for me to overcome.

mary rosenblum

I grew up in an exceedingly perfectionistic environment...extremely so...

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and anything less than perfect was total failure. Well, there IS NO PERFECT in writing...

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boy did I choose the wrong career for that upbringing! Whew!

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And I really had to force myself to send work out and stare those rejections in the face.

realityczech

Oh my gosh...are you the voice in my head???!

mary rosenblum

Welcome to the club, reality. I think it's practically a universal in this business!

mary rosenblum

That demon still flutters around, but I know enough about how things work to smack it down at this point.

smilingsunflower

I get endless ideas and am interested in too many things. My main weakness is finishing all the writing projects I start or resubmitting. That's why my goal is to get things in the mail. Does that address my weakness in a way that works?

mary rosenblum

That does indeed, smiling, and it seems that you are able to see yourself clearly in terms of what your strengths and weaknesses are...

mary rosenblum

I really have had to limit myself in projects...I usually work on three or four...

mary rosenblum

but I have made myself put more than that on hold until I finish one of the ones in progress...

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or it could end up as ten or twelve and all in progress!

chatty lady

Sending out work I feel like a balloon full of air, then the

chatty lady

rejection and the air squeels out if the balloon, splat!

mary rosenblum

yeah, me, too, and all us other writers, too, chatty.

mary rosenblum

That's why you want to keep finishing and sending off...

mary rosenblum

You want to have more 'full of air' moments than deflated moments!

realityczech

So why is it that all us perfectionist-fear-of-failure types gravitate to this field?

mary rosenblum

We all wish we knew, reality. Masochism?

mary rosenblum

But realistically, that drive to get better better better...

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is what takes you over the line from aspiring to pro, reality...

mary rosenblum

those who want to write 'good enough' and nothing more generally don't succeed beyond maybe a single random sale or so.

mary rosenblum

those who are always looking, evaluating, ...'how did he do that'? 'How did she make me see this so clearly'...

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get better and better.

sweett

Good point, Mary. That's exactly how I feel. But, I will stick to the one sentence a day resolution.

mary rosenblum

I know you made this comment way earlier, sweett, but you one sentence a day resolution is a good one.

mary rosenblum

Even if it's one am and you have to get up at six am, take that few minutes to scribble a new sentence at the end of your work in progress.

mary rosenblum

That tiny success in the face of pressure to do otherwise is much more important than you might think.

mary rosenblum

Well, this has been a fun Oregon Hour.

mary rosenblum

And I want to thank all of your for stories that really made my job as anthology editor tough!

mary rosenblum

I'll do another anthology next year, and announce it as an anthology

mary rosenblum

and we'll do this again.

mary rosenblum

The quality of the submissions was WAY better than the average slush pile, believe me.

mary rosenblum

Thanks for coming, all, and have a great first week of a new year!

mary rosenblum

Here's an idea for you..

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it just occurred to me..

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Right now, write yourself a letter...where you think your writing is, what you hope will happen in the coming year...

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what you'd like to improve...

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seal it, and put it away.

mary rosenblum

Open it next New Year's day.

mary rosenblum

have a good week all!

 

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