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Show Me Your Character 6/8/04

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Tue Jun 08 12:04:32 2004

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Tue Jun 08 13:06:09 2004



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mary rosenblum

Hello, all and welcome!

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This is the Tuesday Forum with me, Mary Rosenblum, LR Web Editor, fiction and nonfiction writer. If you're new here, remember that you need to click on the 'Ask a Question' button or the 'word bubble' next to the red question mark at the top of the screen, or use the ask a question icon in order to ask a question. Your regular 'send' bar won't reach me! You can also type /ask in front of your question to reach me

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A little warning here...I'm going to have to be tough and cut this Forum off at the hour this Tuesday instead of going for our usual 'Oregon hour'.

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Apparently my mom is sick and I need to go over there as soon as I'm done here.

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So I'll work at keeping us on task here. And we'll come back to this topic again.

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It's one that bears repeating! :-)

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'show, don't tell' takes many many forms in both fiction and nonfiction.

mbvoelker

Very sorry to hear that. My prayers and best wishes to you and to her.

mary rosenblum

Thanks, MB. It's not a crisis, but her phone is out of order, which complicates things.

lilithangel

I find it very difficult to show vs. tell with 1000 word ->

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Lilith, no wonder. It IS very difficult to show in 1000 words.

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You really have to put some work into it.

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And realize that there are many ways of 'showing', and some of them are as efficient as telling.

lilithangel

She smiled = easierthan her lips turned up

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But 'she smiled' is showing, lilith.

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It's not telling. It's just not a very specific term for moving those lips.

red

new to this chat--is it a single theme?

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Yes, red. This is one of our Forums, where we talk about a particular topic.

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We're talking about 'showing the character' rather than telling about that characater today.

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Usually the chats here are open and casual, but this one's bit more formal. ;-)_ More or less

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Telling is: Janice was happy.

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Showing is: Janice did a little dance across the kitchen floor.

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Yeah, it takes more words, but we get an instant image from those words. Not so with...she was happy'.

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But if words matter...you're doing that 1000 word short short...

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try this: "You're happy," Sally accused.

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Sally tells us that Janice is happy.

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And that 'accused' also lets us guess what Sally's feeling about that is.

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Two things at once, and this is 'showing'.

roe

Janice danced across the kitchen floor.

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Yep.

t green

Papers rustled underfoot with her first step into the room. Her next step took her to the overflowing desk... is this "showing" the reader the messy room?

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This is, but you can do it in an even shorter way: She waded through the papers and found the phone book under the stack of newspapes.

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You're not showing us every step...might be a long trip! ...

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but 'wading', 'papers' and 'stack of newspapers' are seeds...

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they grow into the picture of a messy office instantly in our heads.

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Think of a crystal. One tiny seed crystal, and you grow a huge structure.

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That is what showing does.

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It does NOT mean showing us every detail and movement in the scene.

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Instead it means showing us a few details that let the reader create an instant scene.

lilithangel

I guess I was getting too Technical re: "showing" (Grin)

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Most people do.

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Show, don't tell can be a remarkably hard thing to learn, lillith.

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Scott Card spent a patient afternoon trying to get it through my thick skull when I was a beginner.

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I finally DID get it...but not until later. :-)

t green

so you go from small to big in terms of adjetives..??

mary rosenblum

Yes, t, unless you need to keep those adjectives small.

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There are times when we focus on every little detail around us...in times of crisis, or stress, or when injured and in shock.

lilithangel

Maybe like watching a movie - whatdoyou see vs translatingit

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Exactly, lillith.

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That is the difference. You simply remove the 'narrator' from the picture.

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For example. Annie walked into the room. She was excited that her birthday was tomorrow.

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Annie danced onto the sunporch. Thirteen tomorrow! And a party!

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That 'thirteen tomorrow' 'and a party' are her thoughts.

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We don't see a lot of detail...but the reade will create his or her sunporch.

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We can see more detail as we need it.

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But we know she's happy, yes?

lilithangel

You see her smile, you translate she's happy...

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exactly.

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And the reason you do that is...that is how we know she is happy in real life.

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Nobody whisperes 'Annie was happy...' in our ears.

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The more you mimic reality, the more real your scene is to the reader.

twhorn

Is there any way to know when to use "showing" as compared to "Telling"?

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Yes, twhorn.

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As a rule of thumb, showing is the better choice. BUT...

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in a transition or when you want to cover a lot of time quickly, just tell.

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After dinner, Tyler did his homework, played Doom for an hour and finally took the dog out for a walk.

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We will assume that we have had a 'showing scene' at dinner...

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and we'll need another 'showing sceen' while Tyler is walking the dog...maybe when he runs into a werewolf. :-)

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But if you showed us Tyler doing his homework, playing Doom, and getting his jacket on we'd be yawning.

red

He stood with hands pocketed and eyes downcast. (4 grim?)

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exactly, red!

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Think about how you know someone's mood if they don't tell you.

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That body language works in prose, too!

lilithangel

seems like the showing equivalent of "Time Passes" :)

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Yep.

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Showing does slow down the pace, so if the action is not important to the story, just tell us what happened and get to the next important action. Show us that.

tkat_2

t would be better if TYler transformed into a warewolf while walking the dog

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Well, that's Tyler's story. Don't know if he's a werewolf or his girlfriend is... :-)

gerryd429

on that thoughts/words issue...what is the standard format?

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Annie's thoughts were paraphrased.

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Although they were short and fragmentary enough to seem like a driect thought.

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Remember that we don't think in long, grammatical sentences.

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In fact, most of our actual thoughts probably wouldn't make any sense to anyone else, taken out of context.

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But in any case, thought is nowadays punctuated exactly like regular speech.

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Some publishers will italicize it, although I fight that in my own work.

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Italic reads like a raised or 'different' voice.

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If I have an editor who insists on using italic for thought, I just don't use much thought in my story...the bare minimum needed.

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You simply make it clear from context that it is a thought, and not a line of dialogue. And of course, there are no quote marks.

mousekey

how does one show in first person?

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Well, there are two kinds of first person, mouse.

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There is the narrative first person, where our POV is telling us about an event that happened in the past.

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I remember when I was that age. Barney, the kid next door, always managed to catch a spider to throw on me while I was in church.

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Our POV is telling us about her childhood.

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Then there is direct first person.

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I look through the door. Coast is clear, so I hotfoot it down the block.

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Our POV is in effect talking to himself as he lives the story.

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In both cases, first person IS telling...which is part of the reason I feel that third person overall is a stronger voice for fiction.

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But your 'telling' is your character's voice, not yours.

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The main thing in first person is to rmember that your POV is not going to notice anything unless that character would notice it in reality.

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If our sneak thief POV runs through a garden, he won't notice the Queen Elizabeth rose and the night blooming jasmine...

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unless he is also a gardening fanatic.

roe

Is direct first person always done in present tense?

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No, it isn't, roe, but if I'm using direct first I tend to use present tense.

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Since I'm usually working on a sense of drama and that present tense makes it more immediate.

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Keeps the reader guessing about the MC's survival. :-)

twhorn

I feel that showing give a sense of being there better than just telling

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It does for a very good reason, twhorn.

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What is more fun? Listening to your sis tell you about her trip to Disneyland or a trip to Disneyland. Duh.

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Most of you have probably gotten so 'lost' in a book that you forgot where you were or what time it was.

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That is because the scene became real for you.

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It is much easier to give the reader that sense of 'being there' by showing the scene.

tkat_2

In both of the childrens and adult courses we are asked to underline thought not italicize. I prefer italicizing myself.

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tkat, you are asked to underline because italic is a 'no no' in ms format.

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It's a left over from teh typewriter days, but typesetters do not recognize italic .

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The editor would have to notate on the ms that the italic print was to be set in italic...how's that for redundant?

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But typesetters are taught NOT to think, just to do. And underline indicates italic to a typesetter.

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This is the Tuesday Forum with me, Mary Rosenblum, LR Web Editor, fiction and nonfiction writer. If you're new here, remember that you need to click on the 'Ask a Question' button or the 'word bubble' next to the red question mark at the top of the screen, or use the ask a question icon in order to ask a question. Your regular 'send' bar won't reach me! You can also type /ask in front of your question to reach me

tkat_2

being able to say something with fewer words and also show might help avoid the slush pile :)

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Of the two, tkat, showing is more likely to sell your ms than fewer words.

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Short alone is not a virtue.

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Short and strong together are a virtue.

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Often it takes more words to show the scene than just to say, 'they went into the house'.

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They tiptoed up the sagging steps and peered through the gaping door.

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Visuals and mood.

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Again...there are times when 'they went into the house' is better...

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if it is merely a link between two strong scenes.

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But if entering that hunted house IS a strong scene, then showing us is better.

t green

scene isn't too bad, but how do you do it with character?

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You show us the person, t green, so that we guess what he or she is thinking and feeling.

mbvoelker

I think that this is a good place to put studying people to use. Some people show happy by jumping and dancing. Others sort of freeze -- as if happiness was almost too much to bear.

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Exactly, mb.

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Remember that your reader is capable of filling in a lot of blanks and if you give that reader the right seeds...

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he or she will grow most of the scene for you. You just need to give the right seeds.

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And it is that 'sharing' that makes...in my opinion...prose stronger always than visual media.

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You have no control over what you see on the movie screen.

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But your version of my world is different in may wasy from my version.

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So it is as much yours as mine. That sense of 'my world, too', is, I think, a critical one.

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By giving us glimpses of the characters facial expression and body language as he or she acts and talks...

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you are adding a 'sound track' of thought and mood to the action/dialogue.

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And a character's perspective and thoughts reveal his/her character.

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The old man stared across the park. The brats were out again, swarming all over, leaving their trash behind. Locusts. He spat into the trampled grass. Worse than locusts. Rats.

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We sure know how the old guy feels about kids.

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The old man stared across the park at the children climbing and swinging in the playground. Joy turned into energy. He smiled and whistled to Rover.

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We know how this old man feels about kids.

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You can do this without the thoughts, too.

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The old man stumped along the path past the playstructure. He stopped, glared, then spat deliberately on the dusty ground.

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The old man strolled past the playstructure, smiling, pausing to watch.

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Again, I don't have to TELL you anything about his attitude toward kids.

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The hard part, when you are starting out, is recognizing your own narrative filter.

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Ofetn we just throw in that extra narrative comment when it isn't needed.

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Janice walked into the room and looked around happily. Thirteen tomorrow!

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That 'looked around happily' is me telling you that she is happy.

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Danced into the room does the same thing without my voice.

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That's why you find an admonition about using adverbs too often in many how to write books.

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Don't tell us 'happily', or 'sadly', or 'quickly'. .. Show us.

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ran quickly is raced, dashed, leaped, charged...and we'll learn even more from your choice here.

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But again, nothing is ALWAYS or NEVER in writing.

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Sometimes a quick 'she went to the doctor' is a whole lot more effective than an entire page of details about car, parking garage, waiting room, prescription and so forth.

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Put yourself into your character's head and look through that person's eyes.

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Okay, what do you see and know AS THAT CHARACTER.

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That is showing.

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If Janice is happy...how do you the character know? That dancing step, right?

deb1234

Can you show us an example when lys are acceptable?

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Well, deb, say we have an intense scene in the castle. Our POV has just had a fight with his father, the king, and means to leave on a forbidden journey.

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But all the details of getting his gear together and getting underway are boring.

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So we say... He stormed out of the throne room and gathered his gear quickly. Saddling his bay gelding himself he lashed his pack behind the saddle and galloped through the gate, past the astonished guards.

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We're paraphrasing the details of his departure that would have taken at least a page or more to show.

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Now we're not going to keep on telling like this.

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We might drop back into showing with : He pushed his horse to the limit, until the beast was stumbling with exhustion. Finally he stopped for the night beside a tiny spring. Tethering his drooping mount to a slender sapling, he spread his cloak on the ...

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springy moss and threw himself down on it without even a fire.

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Now, notice that we are beginning to describe more and more details and we're back to showing his actions as they happen.

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Too often, novice writers keep right on with the paraphrasing all the way through.

speckledorf

I think a lot of the time the trouble with "ly" words is they are used reduntantly...whispered quietly or yelled loudly for example...

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No kidding, speck.

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And often they are the 'lazy way out' -- instead of coming up with a vivid verb.

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Said loudly might be announced, yelled, shouted, proclaimed...

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and each of these words carries specific nuances.

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As far as characterization goes, the more you let us guess what your character is thinking and feeling by his or her actions and reactions to events...

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the more you show us that character.

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Margie punched two slices of bread into the toaster, slammed open the cupboard and yanked out the cornflakes box.

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It slipped from her hand, bounced once on the corner of the counter and spilled a golden wave of cereal across the dirty linoleum. "Roger! " She kicked her way through the cereal. "Get down here now!"

ptomainebrain

I'm in the middle of Oryx and Crake, my first exposure to Atwood. In the beginning it seemed almost directionless (it wasn't, I realize now), but in the middle it has reached the can't-put-down stage. I feel like I'm really in a post-apocalyptic world from the way the MC Snowman describes it through his eyes. The key point being the way the MC sees it, not Atwood. How she got it from an idea in her her mind to almost physical reality in mine is the show-don't-tell trick I need to pick up on when I go back and analyze it.

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That's filtering, pto.

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Everything you see is colored, tinted, by Snowman's perceptions, he world view, his beliefs and past.

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That is why it is so important to create three dimensional characters.

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That iceberg's worth of personality will filter your scene and show it to the reader through his eyes.

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And you do that in both third and first person.

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Well, I do need to wrap up here.

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We'll come back to this again, because show don't tell is woven into every aspect of writing...

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characterization, dialogue, pacing...everything.

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But I do need to take off now.

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Drop into tomorrow's casual chat at this time, same place, and i'll happily answer questions about this.

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Thanks for all your good wishes, folks.

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I'll go post this transcript and skedaddle.

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See you tomorrow!

 

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