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Writing the Personal Narrative



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Mary Rosenblum

Good morning, all!

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I hope you had an excellent weekend and a nice Mother's Day, all you mothers out there.

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Today, I wanted to talk about the personal narrative.

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This is a very popular nonfiction genre and something that many LR students find they excell at.

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It's a form of writing that sort of straddles the line between fiction and nonfiction.

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Personal narrative is simply 'telling a real story'.

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That is, you're either telling about something that happened in your life

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or you're telling a story about something that happened to someone else.

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But the stories are not made up, even though you use the same techniques to write these narratives as you'd use to write a fiction story

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including characterization, strong dialogue, and dramatic arc.

k c morlock

What makes a personal narrative different from a memoir?

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It isn't necessarily different at all.

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Memoir is a type of personal narrative.

redwagon

Is there a set rule for 1st person or 3rd?

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No, but if you're writing about your own experience, it's a good idea to use first person, redwagon.

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To readers, third person does tend to 'sound like fiction'.

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If you're telling the story of your neighbor's brush with death while out hiking in the wildnerness

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you might want to use a narrative voice rather than use the limited third person POV of a fiction story.

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You want to remind the readers 'this really happened'.

christopher houle

I want to tell a story but can't seem to get it right about past. Any suggestions?

Mary Rosenblum

I'm not quite sure what you mean about 'can't seem to get it right about the past'. Can you elaborate on that?

kagraham

Can you alter any of the facts as long as the basis is true?

Mary Rosenblum

That is a very gray area, kagraham.

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Yes, you can, but there is a point at which it becomes 'fiction'. And the scandals recently about 'journalist' whose 'personal narratives' turned out to be made up out of whole cloth

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have made editors and the reading public a bit touchy.

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Essentially, if you are using real people and real situations, yeah, you can fill in dialogue you don't remember verbatim

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and tweak a few details to suit the dramatic arc....if it's pretty close to what actually happened.

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After all, get any three family members to write down their memory of that last family reunion and you'll begin to wonder

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if you were all in separate universes!

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Very few people have perfect recall!

unicorn

Can you change the names to protect the people involved in the "narrative". ie. people who would be angry that they were included in the narrative

Mary Rosenblum

You know, Unicorn, I would certainly do that.

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It can be very disturbing to people to find that they have been 'put on a public stage' for the world to look at.

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I suspect that most writers of personal narratives do alter the names of real people in order to protect their privacy.

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Of course those people probably recognize themselves. :-) But the general public won't.

unicorn

Thanks! I have been asked to write a narrative but knew some people involved would be well.....upset

Mary Rosenblum

I think most people would be, actually. I personally would never use someone's real name in a published work unless it's a well known celebrity.

christopher houle

Certain points in my life are harsh and never appear to read well or work well when written out but each of these events play important parts in my life.

Mary Rosenblum

You know, Christopher, this is probably nothing more than a matter of craft.

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The more you write personal narrative, the more your craft skills will improve and the more you'll be able to handle topics and situations that don't read well now.

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I suggest you read a lot of other peoples' personal narratives and see how those authors handled difficult and harsh situations.

gail

I'm curious about personal experiences which involve the paranormal. As some people will assume these are fiction, while others believe in their truth, how does an author categorize this type of storytelling? Is it still "personal narrative" or does it fit into the fiction realm?

Mary Rosenblum

Oh, goodness, Gail, there are many 'nonfiction' accounts of paranormal encounters. I believe it's Ghosts Magazine that solicits this type of narrative.

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And you have books written by 'ghost hunters' describing their encounters.

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The author says it happened and if some readers don't believe this type of thing is possible, they just aren't going to buy the book is all.

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Plenty of others will. :-)

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Christopher, since we were talking about craft here, I will suggest a good 'how to' book on the topic.

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It's Creative Nonfiction by Philip Gerard.

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He covers the topic very thoroughly, from prose techniques through legal issues and interview technique.

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It is published by Story Press

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ISBN 1-884910-43-2

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Marketing creative nonfiction stumps some new writers.

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But it needent.

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There really aren't a lot of 'personal narrative magazines' that simply feature lots of personal narratives.

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Usually, personal narratives wind up in a magazine with a related focus.

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For example, I have a talented student who lives down in Cajun country in Louisiana and writes some of the funniest 'old boys hunting' I've read for a long time.

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I've suggested he send these narratives to the various hunting and fishing magazines out there -- and there are lots of them -- that accept personal narratives.

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Nearly all of them do, and they feature stories about personal experiences in the field.

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Here, I simply paired the topic of the narratives he was writing -- hunting and fishing stories -- with magazines whose readers will like those stories.

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Humor is good, so is drama.

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And one of the benefits of writing personal narrative is that if you read the submission guidelines carefully, you'll discover that most nonfiction

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magazines want the entire manuscript of the personal narrative, rather than a query first.

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That's because it is the author's voice that sells the narrative, not the topic.

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The editor needs to read that piece to see how good a job the author is doing.

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One thing to keep in mind is that the personal narrative does have form. It is not just a collection of random anecdotes from your past.

redwagon

The author's voice, not the topic.......wow thats good insight. thanks mary.

Mary Rosenblum

Well, the topic does have to more or less fit the magazine, red. You wouldn't send a funny story about an elk hunting adventure to a gardening magazine.

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But yes, it's the entertainment aspect of the narrative -- the author's voice and the point that author might be making -- that sells the piece.

gail

Does dramatic personal narrative require some sort of "moral of the story" or uplifting ending? Sometiimes those are hard to find. Should they be discovered before writing the story?

Mary Rosenblum

Well, it doesn't have to be uplifting. Patrick McManus and Bailey White are very popular writers of personal narrative. Their narratives are funny and often insightful, but without offering particuliarly 'high moral tone'.

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And here lies the difference between a 'home movie' and a 'documentary'

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The home movie is only of interest to the family.

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An account of the family Fourth of July picnic with all the aunts and uncles bickering and the kids getting into trouble can utterly bore readers

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if it's too focused on family issues. It's not our family, what's in it for us?

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But if you can make those family tribulations universal -- then you connect with the readers.

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We all have the Aunt who fusses over the table, the food, the egg salad is going to get too warm, you can't let Jimmy play in that creek it might be polluted...

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and Mom or Dad or Brothers' eye rolling tolerance of the old gal is going to strike a chord with a lot of readers.

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It's no longer just the author's story. Lots of readers have the Troublesome Aunt so it becomes their story, too.

jackie7777

I am writing a memorir about my grnadmother - I do not want to expose the DARK SIDE> I am writing about all the good times. Is this too flowery? Am I being too naive to only paint the good picture? Do the readers wnat all the gory details? Do I have to give the dark side? That was not my intention.

Mary Rosenblum

You can focus on any 'side' of the family that you want, Jackie.

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The main thing is to offer the readers that universal.

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It might be the grandmother who always seemed to run the family and the narrator one day got to see her break down privately and reveal her own frailty.

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That might have been a memorable moment for the narrator and it's going to connect

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to the many strong people in readers' lives who tried not to reveal their own vulnerability.

sunshynsmyl

How do you keep a narrative from sounding "editorial"?

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Again, that's a matter of craft, sunshyn, of learning how to do this well.

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Narrative voice is a huge part of personal narrative.

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A flat, monotone drone bores readers to tears.

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If you read the popular narrative writers, you'll quickly realize that they have very unique and strong voices.

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I can generally recognize a Bailey White or Patrick McManus piece even if I don't see the by line.

redwagon

As a landlord, I have a zillion stories, -as far as markets, can you suggest anything?

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It would depend on what you're writing about, red.

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Bailey White, for example, writes a lot about her southern friends and relatives.

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If they happen to involve gardening, they often showed up in gardening magazines.

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She has had some appear in magazines slanted to teachers....she was a grade school teacher and writes about those days.

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So if you write renter stories that involve home repair mishaps you might find a home for them

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in a magazine read by do it yourselfers or homeowners.

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A story about the old retired guy whose war stories drove everybody nuts at first, you might find a home for it

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with a military nostalgia magazine or one whose readers are mostly retirees.

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See what I mean?

sss1208

I want to ask a question about how long can you make a hook ,does it have to be the very first words, or can it be longer,like two or three sentences?

Mary Rosenblum

Sometimes you just can't do it effectively all in the first sentence, sss. If you have hooked the reader by the end of paragraph one, you're fine.

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One thing to be very aware of when you write and send off personal narratives.

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That is rights.

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If you begin to really connect with your narratives, so that you're selling them regularly to large circulation magazines

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sooner or later you'll probably be able to sell a collection of your narratives to a publisher.

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That means you want to be able to include those early narratives that have already been published as well as some new ones.

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So be very careful in this case not to sell 'all rights' .

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Usually you only see that kind of bad contract with very small ezines or print magazines where the editor really doesn't understand rights and mostly deals with novice writers.

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But as with fiction, the resale value of personal narratives is high.

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That's not so true for a nonfiction 'how to' piece or other piece slanted to a particular magazine.

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But do be aware of what you're selling if you're writing personal narrative.

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Personal narratives are a good writing exercise.

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Even if you don't feel that you had lots of dramatic events in your life, what about that first puppy and the lessons you learned as a young kid.

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We have all had 'learning moments' in our lives and these make great personal narratives

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because they connect to those similar moments in readers' lives.

janecj333

How does personal narrative compare with an essay, other than length?

Mary Rosenblum

Well, they're part of the same universe, Jane, and there's no standard definition so some editors use 'personal essay' or 'creative nonfiction' meaning the same thing as 'personal narrative'.

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However, 'essay' does tend to suggest a statement of opinion rather than an account of events meant to connect and entertain.

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One of the things that makes personal narrative enticing is that you are entertaining your readers, making a connection through shared experiences.

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You don't have to be an expert in anything other than life.

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But the techniques are the same.

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As with fiction, I mean.

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That's what separates 'home movie' narratives from something with universal appeal.

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It's your ability to present that experience in a way that entertains and connects with your readers.

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A very strong narrative voice and a sense of you, the narrator, as 'character' are needed.

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Sos think about your life, your experiences. Give it a try. Write a few, polish them up. Remember, as with all writing, the more you do it, the better you get at it.

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A light tone and humor will probably serve you better than darkness and gloom.

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Although they don't have to be humor and drama is always a good sale.

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Notice how many narratives in Readers Digest involve some sort of personal drama.

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Well, I will post the transcript of this Forum in the usual place on the website: Writing Craft: Forum Transcript.

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This week's newsletter 'Spotlight' section is on Personal Narrative and I have a review of Philip Gerard's 'Creative Nonfiction' in the newsletter as well.

heal

Do most of the narrative dramas have their character

 

names changed?

Mary Rosenblum

Generally yes, heal, authors don't use real names.

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I personally think it's unfair to the people you're writing about to put their real names out in the public forum.

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Well, thanks for coming all!

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Drop in tomorrow for our casual chat.

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Same time and place, we just get together to talk.

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Have a good week!

 

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